I was walking to our youngest son’s school with his football gear he had forgotten that morning stuffed in my backpack. Cyndy takes all three boys when she goes to work, opening up the waking atmosphere to sleepy-eyed confusion in which things can slip teenage minds. It was a hot and fairly humid day. Which was not quite conducive to walking long distances on sidewalks with slight - as well as intermittent - shade.
I watch the ground while I walk for several reasons. For one thing, I walk quickly which requires watching the terrain. By watching the ground ahead of me, I am not constantly reminded of how far away my goal is at any given time. I also happen to find quite a few coins that way. But inevitably, while walking along, I recall something we used to say when I was younger. I’ve heard it recently, but not nearly as much as I used to.
"Step on a crack, break your mother’s back."
Did I really believe it? Not really. Did I avoid the cracks? You betcha - just in case, and to be on the safe side. And I will have you know that to this day my mother has not broken her back. A few other things maybe, but not her back. I will also have you know that I do not think my avoiding cracks had a thing to do with it.
Yet, as I was walking to my son’s school, I was avoiding the cracks. More to set up a rhythm in my stride, but avoiding the cracks nonetheless. That got me to thinking - as life and walking are wont to do - about avoiding cracks and hedging bets.
As a general rule, I can set a rhythm or pace and move quickly along avoiding the cracks. As we as Christians can go about our life in the secular world. But then I come across a section of sidewalk - or life - that has begun to show wear, causing a conundrum. There are so many cracks that even a hop-scotch afficionado would have trouble traversing the area. Or the incline on the street corner purposely has a considerable number of cracks - much like on the side of the highway if you drift too far onto the shoulder.
So which cracks count in the break your mother’s back scenario? If it is a natural part of the sidewalk which was purposefully made that way, is that actually considered a crack? Is it just the actual cracks that have developed over time from wear and weather that count? Or do all cracks count causing the situation to be crucially problematic?
Fortunately, "step on a crack, break your mother’s back" is just a game. Unfortunately, life is not a game. Even though it might seem that way at one time or another. Some of the cracks we try to cross in life are wider and deeper than we would have ever imagined.
When we reach those "rough spots" we wonder if we simply took the wrong path to begin with and we are on the wrong sidewalk. Then we realize that no path is an easy path. How will we ever know if we took the wrong path? When the fact is, we only took this one. Sadly, we did not think enough about it in the first place.
On the other hand, if we put our faith in the Lord and Christ, the path will open up before us - we will trust the path we take. All paths have cracks in the sidewalk and other obstacles. But by the grace of God we make it to the end of life’s sidewalk.
Peace be with you.