More resources are available to students than they can even imagine. And I
want to help them realize it sooner than later. During my high school years, I
was an honor roll student. However, that all changed for me when I entered
college. I was in and out of college for ten years due to various reasons. I
learned lessons of persistence and perseverance during this time in my
life.
I made it thru my freshman and sophomore years alright. But, then as a 20
year old junior, my fiance broke off our engagement and I was devastated. I
quit caring and skipped classes often. A close friend of mine suggested
counseling. It turns out there counseling sessions available to students. I
did eventually return home for awhile to put things into perspective. When I
returned to school, I discovered I had a learning disability. I finally
realized why it took me twice as long as the average student to study. I was
able to take exams verbally and orally instead of written and read. Also, I
took advantage of the study lab and tutors available in the Student Center. I
had chronic fatigue and was able to have a classmate copy notes for me and
receive a doctor's excuse note from the Health Center when needed.
I have been reunited with my entire biological family and have had over
twenty surgeries over the past decade. At age 24, my biological mother found me
and I was diagnosed with endometriosis, just like she had - all within one week
of November 1998. In Spring 1999, I attended individual as well as family group
counseling sessions each week during that college semester.
I recommend to all students to "get involved." Whether it's being in the
band, sorority, fraternity, or housing group, find a club that fits you. And
make a schedule. Schedule out study time. Schedule out social time. Make
friends for life as well. I have a circle of ten friends that I've known for
the past decade from my college days. We get together at least once or twice
per month, when possible and we communicate more often by e-mail and phone.
Create a support system within a circle of friends. Do not be afraid to speak
to someone about issues going on in your life. Talk to your teacher, advisor,
professor, or resident assistant. Let them know your concerns so that maybe he
or she can help you and if they can't help you, then maybe they can locate
resources and tools as well as someone else who can. Remember always to
"Persist and "Persevere." Never give up until you receive your degree.
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